SSH... Sweet Stirrings of the Heart
Saturday, September 21, 2013
Prayer to St. Jane Frances de Chantal
PS. By coincidence or is it serendipity?, this saint caught my attention. Later, I found out that her feast day was moved to August 12. In remembrance to my Father, Cres D. Aspiras's birthday, which falls on this said date, I am spreading the devotion to St. Jane Frances de Chantal.) Thanks, friends!
Sunday, August 25, 2013
Desiderata (Ilocano version)
Agoo, La Union
National Heroes Day
August 26, 2012
Each time I read the Desiderata, I get a fresh start. It is a guide masterpiece for anyone, young or old. It brings out the hero in you!
Desiderata
Agpatuloy ka ti baet iti
ariwawa ken ganat ket panunutem nga adda talna iti kinaulimek. Ingganat makayam
makitunos ka iti padam a tao. Ilanad mo ti pakaistoryaam nga nalinay ken
nalawag, ken dumngeg ka iti sabali, uray dagitay nanumo ken nakuneng, adda met
maistoryada. Adaywam dagiti nariribuk ken nadangras nga tattao ta isuda iti
mangsinga iti kinataom.
No ikumparam iti bagim iti
sabali baka agbalin ka nga natangsit wenno sakiten daytoy ti nakem mo, ta adda
latta tattao nga nangatngato wenno nababbaba ngem sika. Nanamem dagiti gapuanam
kasta met dagiti planom. Ipateg mo iti pagsapulam, uray man pay bassit, ta isu
iti pudno a baknang iti agtultulid nga gasat iti paniempo.
Agannad ka kadagiti
tamingem, ta addu iti mangallilaw ditoy lubong. Ngem saan mo nga baliwalaen ti
kinaimbag ta adu pay ti tao nga nasayaat ti gagarna, ken adu met latta ti
natatakneng. Agpudno ka ta bagim. Saan ka nga agpampamarang. Saan mo nga laiten
iti ayat ta uray man pay addu ti nakaskas-ang nga makitam, ti pudno nga ayat
ket ayat kasla met laeng iti ruot nga agrusing ket agtubo. Arakupem dagiti adal
ti panawen, ket ibbatam dagiti rasi iti kinabanwag.
Agsingsingpet ka, ta isu ti
galad mo no dumteng ti rigat, ngem saan ka nga agbiag iti nalidem nga arapaap.
Di ka agbannog ken agliday tapno saan ka a mapabutngan. Agparbeng ka, ikutam ta
bagim. Parsua ka iti lubong, mas importante ka ngem dagiti kaykayo ken bituen,
adda karbengam nga ageddeng ditoy. No man pay di mo maawatan, ti lubong ket
agtulid a kas rumbeng. Isu nga agtalek ka ken Apo Dios, uray man pay dimo
matarusan iti aramidna ken ania man ti pakasiknam ken arapaap mo ti tengnga ti
kinaburibor ti biag, agsingsingpet ka latta. Ta numan pay iti bayat iti raira
iti panagbiag, kinaawan latta ken awan ti pannakaragpat dagiti darepdep
napintas latta ti lubong. Agliwliwa ka.
Agregget ka nga agragsak
(A
kas impaulog iti Ilocano ti The Ilocandia Express)
Desiderata
by Max Ehrmann, 1927
Go placidly amid the noise and the haste, and
remember what peace there may be in silence. As far as possible without
surrender, be on good terms with all persons. Speak your truth quietly and
clearly; and listen to others, even to the dull and the ignorant, they too have
their story. Avoid loud and aggressive persons, they are vexations to the
spirit.
If you compare yourself with others, you may become
vain or bitter; for always there will be greater and lesser persons than
yourself. Enjoy your achievements as well as your plans. Keep interested in
your own career, however humble; it is a real possession in the changing
fortunes of time.
Exercise caution in your business affairs, for the
world is full of trickery. But let not this blind you to what virtue there is;
many persons strive for high ideals, and everywhere life is full of heroism. Be
yourself. Especially do not feign affection. Neither be cynical about love; for
in the face of all aridity and disenchantment it is as perennial as the grass.
Take kindly the counsel of the years, gracefully surrendering the things of
youth.
Nurture strength of spirit to shield you in sudden
misfortune. But do not distress yourself with dark imaginings. Many fears are
born of fatigue and loneliness. Beyond a wholesome discipline, be gentle with
yourself. You are a child of the universe, no less than the trees and the
stars; you have a right to be here. And whether or not it is clear to you, no
doubt the universe is unfolding as it should.
Therefore, be at peace with God, whatever you
conceive Him to be. And whatever your labors and aspirations in the noisy
confusion of life, keep peace in your soul. With all its sham, drudgery and
broken dreams; it is still a beautiful world. Be cheerful.
Strive to be happy.
Thursday, August 22, 2013
Ilocano at its best
Agoo, La Union
August 23, 2013
August 23, 2013
Ilocano at its Best
Ilocano is one of
the Filipino languages largely spoken around our archipelago. With the outflow
of OFWs abroad, Ilocano is also seeping into other foreign lands and to other
cultures.
An Ilocano word, “gaga”
which means “crazy, silly” is in the English dictionary but its etymology says
it comes from French’s “senile, foolish” or “meaningless bubblings”. Can we
therefore say we had long ago connections with the French?
“The medium is
the message,” according to Marshall Mcluhan, a media analyst. He explains what
you say or your medium is the message itself.
“Adda maysa nga
saritak.” (I have one word.) This is one sentence we often hear from our
elders. Instead of saying, “Ikarik” (I promise.),” They say, “I have one word.”
An Ilocano is so firm, he defines his actions with one word – "maysa nga sarita".
Yet “sarita”
means so many words like a poem, an essay, a composition. All these are called “sarita”.
“Plastic” people
are called “aginkukuna” (roughly, “telling something not the truth”" So really,
what an Ilocano says is very important to him.
Perhaps Ilocanos
are among the most respectful people in the world. They respect their “manongs”
and “manangs” (elder brothers and sisters). They respect, too, those younger
than them with “ading” (younger brothers and sisters). In other languages, like
Tagalog, there is no “ading” and so with English. It’s just that “manong” and “manang”
are now used to address the man in the street elsewhere especially in Manila.
Ilocanos though,
like Koreans, address the friends of their parents “uncle” and “auntie”.
While the English
and the Americans have their general use of relations like in-laws, referring
to a father, sister, etc., the Ilocanos are very specific – abalayan (parents
of a couple), katugangan (parent of a married spouse), aberat (sibling of a
spouse).
A groom “nobyo”
and a bride “nobya” are the ones being wedded. But the Ilocanos also call the
engaged, and the boyfriends/girlfriends “nobyo” and “nobya”. A man usually
introduces his girlfriend as, “gayyem ko”, a girl of her boyfriend as “gayyem
ko”, also.
This means, an
Ilocano does not discriminate a gender – male or female, in terms of
friendship. He also doesn’t have an “m u” (with mutual understanding relationship).
“Asinno dayta? Agar-arem kenka?” This is often asked by elders to mean, “Is he
your boyfriend, your admirer?” Ilocanos have long courtships, so the action
word, “agar-arem” “courting”
But do you notice that Ilocanos have great
distinctions for their parents? They refer to their parents as “nanang” or “tatang”
or other terms for mother and father. But they seldom use the words, “naggannak kaniak" (literally, those who gave birth to me) "dadakkel
ko” (my elders). Therefore, for an Ilocano his mother and father have different and
certain roles. Their children have certain expectations from them. Moreover,
parents call their children, “ubbing ko”. Like in English, they are called that
way even if they are already passed middle age.
On the otherhand,
Ilocanos have difficulty in the measurement of things. “Adu pay iti bagas?” (Do
we have more than enough rice?) The answer is usually, “Addu pay ngem bassiten.”
(Much but small quantity.) Or, “Bassiten, ngem addu pay met.” (Small quantity
but we still have.)
This vagueness is
also present concerning directions. When one is asked for directions, he is
answered with, “Addayu pay” (It’s far yet.)” or “Asidegen” (It’s near already.”
When asked, “Where is a thing?”, an Ilocano says, “Adda laeng dita.” (It is
just there.) Perhaps it is not vagueness but complacency that everything is
just there. We get this attitude with our climate, only summer and rainy season
– the sun shines in the morning and sets in the evening. It is there always.
But Ilocanos are frivolous
with their flattery, especially concerning women. They have different terms for
beautiful – napintas, nalibnos, napusaksak.
Love is the
greatest force in the world, for God is love. But Ilocanos seldom say, “Ay-ayaten
ka” (I love you) to a loved one, even to his mother. Yes, they say that in
English or Tagalog – I love you, Mahal kita. They would rather praise someone
to say they love them. “Nagsingpet ka, nagsayaat ka!” (You are good, kind.)
But Ilocanos,
have so many endearments like “raem”. “Agraemak ken amak ken inak.” (I respect and love my father and my mother.) Raem means both love and respect. In speeches, they
also use the word, “ingungutek” meaning “the one I love” like “ingungutek a kakailian”
(my beloved townmates). They refer to
their guests, as “patpatgenmi nga bisita” (literally, the guest we honor.) Ilocano sentences usually have the source – I, we; and object – you, it, etc. So,
they are generally in command of a situation. Like they say, “Agannad ka.” (You
take care, and not take care only.). They prefer the phrase “Ay-ayatemi nga
pagilian.” (The country we love.) rather than “Ti maay-ayat nga pagilian.” (beloved
country.)
The way we
express our gratitude perhaps is one of the most beautiful versions of “Thank
you” in the world. We say, “Agyamanak” (Thank you.) But we also say “Dios iti
agngina” (God will repay you.) from the heart!
Indeed, Ilocanos
are a grateful people and they have inherent trust in the Lord.
Agyamanak, Apo!
Dios iti agngina kadakayo amin nga nangbasa itoy saritak.
Wednesday, August 21, 2013
The Pursuit of Happiness
August
21, 2013
Rainy Wednesday
It is raining for more than a week
already. Here in the tropics, the absence of the sun causes depression. So, I
am sharing a “classic” write-up from my column, Current Affairs. Friend, in this
blog, I will be sharing with you some of my past writings. We are homebound right now because of the
rains. It is wet everywhere. Unlike elsewhere, though, there is no flooding
around the house.
The Pursuit of Happiness
Whatever makes
one happy is allowed by his conscience. Happiness is awareness of one’s being.
It is the acceptance of one’s limitation and knowing how to complement them.
Happiness is the
pleasure one receives when he gives. So, always be gracious and be generous.
Always try to
live with and be satisfied with what you have. Don’t envy what others have and
don’t compare your possession with others. Instead of whining, try to improve,
complement what you got. Enjoy what you have.
On the other
hand, if you are lacking a certain good, try to focus or divert your attention
to another goal so that you will not feel frustrated.
Always allow a
room for improvement, nothing is perfect after all.
Have a goal but
it should not obsess you. You must be able to handle it at will. You can pursue
it, replace it, or forget it. Focus on the things you can do something about.
A happy person is
a grateful person. An unhappy person always dwells about his state of
unhappiness, of the useless past. You must be grateful that you are alive and
can improve your state of life. Moreover, be loyal to those who are helping you
or to those who are giving you livelihood. Without them, you will not live
fairly besides they would be the first to help you in times of difficulty or
hardship.
Have a work,
career, job or goal that makes you happy. You can never be happy if you do not
like what you are doing
You can control
your mood. You can choose to be happy. Be positive. Learn not to complain and
not to get angry.
On the other hand,
you can never be happy all the time. Your day could be happy or manageable only
if you choose to ignore little hassles or small hitches.
Do not be afraid
to depend on others or ask help from them. After all, you can return the favours
you have received from them in the future.
Most often,
selfish people are the most unhappy people. They stack on themselves material
possessions fearing that someday they will be alone, not knowing that they are
very hard to reach, that they are widening their gaps with their loved ones.
Money can be
saved and earned in time. As they say, the loss of money could always be
recovered.
There is a need
to love right now. One should never put off to love, to care, to be kind and to
be understanding.
Always allow yourself
to trust others and bind that trust with good communication.
- Current Affairs
by C. Lalaine Aspiras
The Ilocandia Express
February 26, 2007
JDA
Agoo, La Union
August 21, 2013
While I am at it, another column/article landed on my lap, so to speak. Here's just another article that would recap my posts about the late Ambasador Jose D. Aspiras
CURRENT AFFAIRS
by C. Lalaine Aspiras
The Ilocandia Express
September 11, 2002
JDA
History is being kind to the memory of
the late Ambassador Jose D. Aspiras.
On
the day of Ambassador Aspiras’s supposedly 78th birthday, the marker
of the Jose D. Aspiras highway, formerly Marcos Highway, was unveiled with
guests including Bishop Antonio Tobias who blessed it; Madame Amparo Aspiras;
Baguio Mayor Bernardo Vergara; Former Mayor Luis Aspiras; Barangay Capt.
Lorenzo Cases. Of course, the three mayors of whose domains are being traversed
by the said highway were there – Agoo Mayor Franny Eriguel; Tubao Mayor Violeta
Verceles and Pugo Mayor Orlando Balloguing.
Very
immediately after Ambasador Aspiras’s demise, the Don Mariano Marcos Memorial
Marcos State University honoured the congressman of the 2nd District
in naming its gym and multi-purpose hall after him. Next, the Agoo government
headed by Mayor Franny Eriguel; and the Sangguniang Bayan headed by Vice Mayor
Ramil J. Lopez passed a resolution naming the Agoo Civic Center as Jose D.
Aspiras Civic Center.
So
here in Agoo, rightly called “Aspiras country”, the name of Sunshine Joe lives
on.
Ambassador
Aspiras then when he was still Secretary of Tourism and later as minister, with
then Department of Public Works and Highways (DPWH) Regional Director, now
Baguio City Mayor Bernardo Vergara were instrumental in constructing the
highway from Agoo to Baguio. Looking at the terrain, it was then almost
inconceivable that a shorter highway would connect the highlands to the
lowlands. It is only with leaders who possess the vision that such historic
projects are to be born.
And
I take pride that somehow I am part ot the Aspiras clan which by now has to
carry over the good deeds of the late congressman.
Of
which reminds me of the recent Operation Smile sponsored by the LULA foundation
and the Aspiras family last June at the ITRMC. Mrs. Babot Aspiras-Oreta was the
over-all coordinator. Clients were childen with cleft-lips or broken palates
who were operated on by volunteers of Operation Smile headed by its president,
Edith Villanueva. Mrs. Babot happily introduced me around as a relative to the
doctors and patients and I took it kindly from her. I want to congratulate
again Mrs. Oreta for she had done much without funfare. She was instrumental in
making a significant and permanent change on the part of the children as they
instantly got better personalities and confidence after their operations. It
was then the birthday of Bishop Tobias. He was so happy for the children and
for the sponsors, too, for the good deed.
With
such good heart of the relatives of the former Ambassador, his name will truly
live on.
The Ilocandia Express
August 14, 1996
Photos below were taken during the blessing of The IE office.
Father Teodorico Rivera blessed the building. Cong. Jose D. Aspiras graced the occasion.
Sunday, August 18, 2013
Tribute to Jose D. Aspiras
August 19, 2013
Agoo, La Union
JOSE D. ASPIRAS
August 18, 1924 – November 14, 1999
Statesman, Legislator, Administrator, Journalist
Knight of the Order of St. Gregory the Great
Former President of the National Press Club
Former Minister of Tourism
Former Congressman, 2nd District, La Union
Current Resident Representative of the Manila
Economic and Cultural Office (MECO) in Taiwan
Economic and Cultural Office (MECO) in Taiwan
During
Sunshine Joe’s wake at the Basilica of Our Lady of Charity, I interviewed
people around:
TRIBUTE TO JOSE D. ASPIRAS
(The Ilocandia Express, November 17, 1999)
As a
congressman, he served par excellence and had been a veteran legislator. As a
friend, I was the closest to him. He was a true friend and very helpful. –
Congressman Bernardo Vergara, Baguio City
***
He had a
great passion to serve the people even to the end. He has shone brightly as a
public servant, both in our country and abroad.
His life,
work and service have made La Union a better place to live in. His legacy as a
great leader will be long remembered by our people for he was a favourite son
of La Union. – Gov. Justo. O. Orros, Jr., La Union
***
Not only the 2nd District of La Union but the
whole country had lost a leader who had contributed unforgettable
accomplishments in terms of tourism projects entire the country, both visible
and intangible accomplishments which could not be counted of in numbers brought
to the 1st and 2nd District of La Union while he was
still Congressman, including the churches.
Not only people of Agoo will miss “Sunshine Joe” but the
whole country as well. – La Union Senior Board Member Rolando Rivera and a
former Sangguniang Bayan Member of Agoo.
***
He was a great man and a favourite son of La Union. We feel
so depressed and shock by his demise. He built man land mark infrastructures. –
Mayor Franny Eriguel, Agoo, La Union
***
Dakkel ti pukaw iti ipapanaw ni Apo Jose D. Aspiras, saan
laeng para iti nasyon, ti probinsya, iti ili, no di para ti pamilya a De
Guzman. Nabayag ti panaggagem ti pamilya De Guzman ken ti Aspiras. Ladingeten
ti pamilya De Guzman ti ipupusay ni Apo Aspiras nga isu iti sumagmamano pay a
tawen.
Adu ti naited ni Apo Aspiras iti nagbalinan ken idudur-as iti
ili ti Bauang.
Dakkel a dayaw ni Apo Aspiras, nga anak ti La Union a
nagbalin a sekretaryo iti Tourismo a mabigbigbig saan laeng nga ditoy pagilian
tayo no diket iti intero a lubong. Maysa isuna a natakneng a tao nga
nangitandudo ti probinsya a La Union.
Dawatek kadagiti pamilyana nga no adda nagkurkurangan ti
pamilya De Guzman ket maawatanda koma.
Dawatek kadagiti umili nga ilualo tayo iti panakabendisyon ti
kararuana. – Mayor Eulogio Clarence Martin De Guzman, Bauang, La Union
***
He was a good man, he had his moments, his legacy will be
unsurpassed. My regret is that I could have known him better. Instead, I
practically grew up and became a lawyer denying I was him or his son or
compulsory heir. – Lawyer Jose Ventura Aspiras
He made our province most beautiful and he was the
congressman who has ever served our district. – Casimiro Mabutas, former
Municipal Treasurer.
***
As expected the outpour of grief is so insurmountable. He is
well-loved by so many people from all walks of life, the rich and the poor, and
all government officials well. This shows that he served well in all
capacities. I hope we can produce another like him. It is a great loss to us
considering that he is one of the advisers of the President, He is so different
compared to modern day public politicians in reference to his sincerity,
dedication and he has done a lot for the province and for the country as well!
There is no substitute for “Sunshine Joe”. – Atty. Rey Dulay, Director, John
Hay Poro Point Development Corporation (JPDC)
***
He is a legend and Godfather of La Union. He loved all kinds
of people even those who tried to destroy him. – Florie Flores of San Jose
California
***
He’s well-loved and he will be missed terribly. – Iking
Rivera and Iling Sison, Agoo, La Union
Happy 89th Birthday "Sunshine Joe"
August 19, 2013
Agoo, La Union
JOSE D. ASPIRAS
August 18, 1924 – November 14, 1999
Happy 89th Birthday , “Sunshine Joe”!
I was looking for a material to write on my new blog. As they
say, when the muse comes, welcome it. Yesterday, August 18 was an opportune
time as it was the 89th birthday anniversary of “Sunshine Joe”. I
was surfing the net to get his biography but I could not find much from the top
sites of Google search machine. ... And to think that the late Jose D. Aspiras
was a statesman.
I joined the mass for him held at the mausoleum of the Lady
of Charity Basilica with his family led by his wife former La Union Vice Gov.
Amparo M. Aspiras; their children present, Aida Aspiras, also a former La Union
Vice Governor; former Agoo Mayor Jose Luis Aspiras and Mrs. Babot
Aspiras-Oreta. Later, the family served lunch at their house, where I met
mutual friends and met new ones.
The mass was officiated by Father Salvador Agualada, Jr. a Claretian priest, and by Father Chito Apusen
and Father Ronald Chan. Father Salvador is the author of “Strings of a Heart in
Prayer”, “Homecoming”, “Pedro Calungsod, Patron for the Filipino youth”.
Father Salvador in his sermon said that although we are born
into this world, this is not our home. But we must prepare ourselves to the
true homecoming and that is when we die and go home to our Father in heaven. He also said he was amazed that the sun rises
in one portion of the earth and sets in another, describing God’s magnificence. I thought then, Tito Joe, was
aptly called “Sunshine Joe” for his magnificence. Among us siblings, I was
closest to him.
What I haven’t found in the net, I found in the pages of The
Ilocandia Express, which I published and edited.
Now, I must rely heavily on the article – Ex-Congressman
Aspiras dies (banner story, November 17, 1999) and re-write it, remove details about the schedule of the event but add some
details to suit the present year.
*****
Former Congressman Jose D. Aspiras of the Second District of
La Union held the position of a Resident Representative and Managing Director
of the Manila Economic and Cultural Office (MECO) in Taiwan when he died of
heart attact at the Capitol Medical Center in Quezon City. He suffered from a
lingering illness before his death.
While in Taiwan, Aspiras’ MECO position was equivalent to a
rank of an ambassador. He died at the age of 75.
Aspiras, fondly called, “Sunshine Joe” is survived by his
wife, former La Union Vice Governor Amparo Mendoza Aspiras and his children:
Aida, Babot and Babes, Jose Luis, Cristy, Vicky, and Reggie; grandchildren,
Toby, Padjo and Leia, Charlotte and Bacchus, Monique, Maureen and Louie, and
Quinto and great grandchildren John, Kayla and Emilio. Vicky followed her father
a few years later.
Aspiras was a journalist who wrote for the Evening News and
later became a war correspondent in Korea. He was at the time with Benigno
“Ninoy” Aquino, Jr., who was also a correspondent of The Manila Times. In one
incident, Ninoy had to dive first in the
fox hole, followed by Aspiras with the latter’s body covering and securing the
young Ninoy.
Aspiras also became a President of the National Press Club
(NPC) when journalists went all out for him, following the defiance to reveal
the source of his news story during a legislative investigation. He was at the
same time the embodiment of a champion of press freedom. Ferdinand E. Marcos,
then a congressman became his defense counsel who tried to save Aspiras from
his predicament but was nevertheless jailed. Aspiras’ heroic act paved the way
to the passage of the Freedom of Information Act of 1957.
In 1965, President Marcos appointed Aspiras as Information
Secretary. Then he ran for congressman for the 2nd District of La
Union in the 1969 polls and defeated then incumbent Congressman Manuel T.
Cases, who had dominated La Union for 20 years.
Aspiras served in the Seventh Congress until 1972 when
Martial Law was proclaimed. Marcos then appointed him as Minister of Tourism
until 1986.
Under Aspiras’s initiative, the Balikbayan Program, the
Reunion for Peace, the Miss Universe contest and other toruism projects were
implemented which attracted local and foreign tourists. In 1980, the
Philippines reached its goal of a million foreign tourist arrivals, making the
tourism industry the country’s third largest foreign exchange earner.
During Martial Law, Aspiras was also at one time acting
General Manager of the Government Insurance System and member of the Board of
Directors of several government and private corporations.
In Agoo, La Union, the parish church of the 16th
century vintage got renovated, all through his leadership and vision.
After the church’s improvement, it was elevated to the rank
of Minore Basilica by Pope John Paul II in 1981.
For his services to the church, Aspiras was conferred the
Grand knighthood of the Order of St. Gregory, the highest lay decoration from
the Holy See.
Aspiras had also envisioned La Union to become an educational
center of the north. He then worked out for the establishment and improvement
of the Don Mariano Marcos Memorial State University now with campuses in
Bacnotan, San Fernando City, Agoo, Sto. Tomas and Rosario.
Aspiras again ran as Congressman and won handily from 1987 to
1998. Barred to run for re-election for Congress after his third term, Aspiras
became a candidate for governor of La Union but he lost. With the onset of the
Estrada administration, was tapped to run MECO in Taipeh, Taiwan.
Popularly known as “Sunshine Joe”, he will be remembered as a
public servant with utmost charisma, very pleasing personality of a devoted
public servant, sincere and noble God’s crusader and a true lover of country
and people, an Agooenian of the highest tradition.
Less than a year after his death, the Agoo-Tubao Section of
the Agoo-Baguio Road (Marcos highway) was renamed as the Jose D. Aspiras
Highway in his honor through Republic Act 8971 of October 31,2000. The Agoo
Civic Center which he built also was renamed Jose D. Aspiras Civic Center and
the DMMMSU Gymnasium as Aspiras Gymnasium in his honor. Moreover, a building at
the La Union Medical Center, Agoo, La Union, was also named after him.
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